We do not choose survival as a value, it chooses us.
Each of us has interests which conflict the interests of everybody else... 'everybody else' we call 'society'. It's a powerful opponent and it always wins. Oh, here and there an individual prevails for a while and gets what he wants. Sometimes he storms the culture of a society and changes it to his own advantage. But society wins in the long run, for it has the advantage of numbers and of age.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Individual desires often clash with societal norms, leading to conflict. Ultimately, society as a collective force tends to prevail.
In this quote, B. F. Skinner explores the inevitable conflict between individual interests and societal expectations. He suggests that while individuals may achieve temporary victories, the overarching influence of society — shaped by its collective power, traditions, and longevity — ensures that societal norms remain dominant. This highlights the challenges individuals face in attempting to effect change within a broader social context.
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In practice
Example use cases
During a speech about societal change, one could use this quote to emphasize the resilience of social norms.
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