It used to be thought that our genes were historically immutable and that it was not possible to imagine a conversation between culture and genetics.
Nicholas A. ChristakisRead
Whether we appreciate it or not, we live out our lives surrounded by an intricate pattern of social connections... We're all embedded in this network; it affects us profoundly and we may be unaware of its existence, of its effect on us.
Interpretation
Our lives are deeply influenced by the social connections we have, even if we are not aware of them.
This quote highlights the significance of social networks in our lives, suggesting that our relationships and connections shape our experiences and behaviors in profound ways. It encourages us to recognize and appreciate the intricate web of interactions that influence our thoughts and actions, often without our conscious awareness.
In practice
During a workshop on teamwork, this quote could be used to emphasize the importance of collaboration.
It used to be thought that our genes were historically immutable and that it was not possible to imagine a conversation between culture and genetics.
The reason we form networks is because the benefits of a connected life outweigh the costs. It's to our advantage as individuals and a species to assemble ourselves in this fashion.
There are very fundamental reasons we live our lives in social networks, and if we really understood the role they're playing in our society, we would take better care of social networks and find ways to take advantage of their power to improve our society.
Social media and the Internet haven't changed our capacity for social interaction any more than the Internet has changed our ability to be in love or our basic propensity to violence, because those are such fundamental human attributes.
We and others have done a bunch of work to show that if your real friends online say or do something, it affects you. But if your acquaintances online say or do something, it does not. People on average have about 106 Facebook friends, but only 5 or 6 real friends.
It is well to look around at whom, and not just what, surrounds us. Population structure will change everything. Our health, wealth, and peace depend on it.
I am dead. I have no desire for you. My body no longer wants the one who doesn’t love.
I seem to have fallen for women with missing parents. Goodness knows what it signifies.
When it comes down to it, you win a bunch of games or maybe things don't go the way that you plan - those relationships that you build with the guys around you last a lifetime. To me, that's meaningful.
I think our capacity for wholeheartedness can never be greater than our willingness to be broken-hearted. It means engaging with the world from a place of vulnerability and worthiness.
The human heart dares not stay away too long from that which hurt it most. There is a return journey to anguish that few of us are released from making.
You know we fixate on the food so much itself: “Oh, the ultimate brownie or the ultimate this or that” -- well, let me tell you something: It’s all poop in about 12 hours, okay? The real power that food has is its ability to connect human beings to each other -- that’s the stuff right there and, to me, everything else is secondary to that.
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