Love consists in leaving the loved one space to be themselves while providing the security within which that self may flourish.
Tony JudtRead
Words can make the illness a subject I can master, and not one that one simply emotes over.
Interpretation
Words have the power to help us understand and gain control over difficult emotions.
In this quote, Tony Judt expresses the idea that by articulating our experiences and emotions through words, we can better comprehend and manage challenging situations, such as illness. Rather than letting illness define us or overwhelm us emotionally, we can use language as a tool to create distance and mastery over our feelings, transforming them into something we can discuss and reflect upon thoughtfully.
In practice
In a speech about mental health, one might use this quote to highlight the importance of expressing feelings.
Love consists in leaving the loved one space to be themselves while providing the security within which that self may flourish.
If active or concerned citizens forfeit politics, they thereby abandon their society to its most mediocre and venal public servants
Obviously a primary liberal conviction is that we should be tolerant of other peoples' convictions. But if we believe in something, we had better find ways to say so convincingly.
Social democracy does not represent an ideal future; it does not even represent the ideal past.
What I am against is false optimism: the notion either that things have to go well, or else that they tend to, or else that the default condition of historical trajectories is characteristically beneficial in the long-run.
I'm not sure I've learned anything new about life; but I've had to think harder about death and what comes after for other people.
The reason why we want to remember an image varies: because we simply 'love it,' or dislike it so intensely that it becomes compulsive, or because it has made us realize something about ourselves, or has brought about some slight change in us. Perhaps the reader can recall some image, after the seeing of which he has never been quite the same.
I am a strong individualist by personal habit, inheritance, and conviction; but it is a mere matter of common sense to recognize that the State, the community, the citizens acting together, can do a number of things better than if they were left to individual action.
The human world is a long way from meeting the needs of the present, and it is borrowing massively from the future - not only by piling up money debt, but also by degrading the resources from which all real wealth ultimately comes.
To come to know that nothing is good, nothing is bad, is a turning point; it is a conversion. You start looking in; the outside reality loses meaning. The social reality is a fiction, a beautiful drama; you can participate in it, but then you donβt take it seriously. It is just a role to be played; play it as beautifully, as efficiently, as possible. But donβt take it seriously, it has nothing of the ultimate in it.
For much of history it was possible to believe that the great diversity of life on Earth was a fixed creation, that the living world had never changed. But when the first stirrings of industry demanded that fuel be dug from the earth and hillsides be leveled for roads and railways, the Earth's true past was dug up in abundance.
Thinking is the most unhealthy thing in the world, and people die of it just as they die of any other disease. Fortunately, in England at any rate, thought is not catching.
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