this is why we call people exes, I guess - because the paths that cross in the middle end up separating at the end. it's too easy to see an X as a cross-out. it's not, because there's no way to cross out something like that. the X is a diagram of two paths.
The world is quieter now. It is never quiet, but it can get quieter. What strange creatures we are, to find silence peaceful, when permanent silence is the thing we most dread. Nighttime is not that. Nighttime still rustles, still creaks and whispers and trembles in its throat. It is not darkness we fear, but our own helplessness within it. How merciful to have been granted the other senses.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote reflects on the paradox of seeking peace in silence while fearing true silence itself, revealing our struggle with helplessness and reliance on our senses.
In this quote, David Levithan explores the inherent contradiction in humanity's relationship with silence. While we often crave the peace that comes with quieter moments, we simultaneously fear the emptiness of complete silence, which brings to light our vulnerabilities and helplessness. The quote suggests that instead of being afraid of darkness, we should appreciate the other senses we possess, which allow us to navigate the world even when it feels daunting and silent.
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Example use cases
During a meditation session, this quote can remind participants of the importance of embracing silence.
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It doesn't have to be on Valentine's Day. It doesn't have to be by the time you turn eighteen or thirty-three or fifty-nine. It doesn't have to conform to whatever is usual. It doesn't have to be kismet at once, or rhapsody by the third date. It just has to be. In time. In place. In spirit. It just has to be.
Even though I'm seventeen, I guess I still thought this would always be true - that there would always be that lost-and-found, and not the lost-and-still-lost that I am now trapped inside.
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