The good man does not grieve_x000D_ that other people do not recognize his merits._x000D_ His only anxiety is lest he should fail to recognize theirs.
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To create worry humans elongate fear with anticipation and memory, expand it in imagination and fuel it with emotion. The uniquely human mental process called worrying depends upon having a brain that can reason, remember, reflect, feel, and imagine. Only humans have a brain big enough to do this simultaneously and do it well.
Interpretation
Worrying is a complex human experience driven by our ability to think and feel deeply about future uncertainties.
This quote by Edward Hallowell highlights the human tendency to worry, which is enabled by our advanced cognitive abilities. Unlike any other species, humans can combine reasoning, memory, reflection, emotion, and imagination to construct fears about the future, thereby amplifying our anxieties and concerns through our thoughts and feelings.
In practice
In a mental health seminar discussing the effects of worry on daily life.
The good man does not grieve_x000D_ that other people do not recognize his merits._x000D_ His only anxiety is lest he should fail to recognize theirs.
Forgiveness is a selective remembering. It is a conscious choice to focus on someone's innocence instead of his or her mistakes...This serves *you*...Your body was not created to bear the burden of your overattachment to it, but was created as a container for the light of your spirit. It will more easily remember how to function perfectly when you remember the perfection in everyone.
Be as beneficent as the sun or the sea, but if your rights as a rational being are trenched on, die on the first inch of your territory.
Like a man who has been dying for many days, a man in your city is numb to the stench.
Write your injuries in dust, your benefits in marble.
Who could be so lucky? Who comes to a lake for water and sees the reflection of moon.
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