That's the worst of growing up, and I'm beginning to realize it. The things you wanted so much when you were a child don't seem half so wonderful to you when you get them.
Interpretation
As we mature, the things we dreamed of as children may lose their allure and not fulfill our expectations.
This quote reflects the disillusionment that often accompanies adulthood, where the desires and dreams of childhood may not translate into the happiness or fulfillment one anticipated. It suggests that growing up brings a complex understanding of reality, often leaving us to confront the bittersweet nature of our aspirations versus their actual outcomes.
In practice
During a graduation speech to remind students about the realities of adulthood.
A broken heart in real life isn't half as dreadful as it is in books. It's a good deal like a bad tooth, though you won't think THAT a very romantic simile. It takes spells of aching and gives you a sleepless night now and then, but between times it lets you enjoy life and dreams and echoes and peanut candy as if there were nothing the matter with it.
A house isn't a home without the ineffable contentment of a cat with its tail folded about its feet. A cat gives mystery, charm, suggestion.
Gilbert darling, don't let's ever be afraid of things. It's such dreadful slavery. Let's be daring and adventurous and expectant. Let's dance to meet life and all it can bring to us, even if it brings scads of trouble and typhoid and twins!" (Anne to Gilbert)
Youth is not a vanished thing but something that dwells forever in the heart.
I'm so glad I live in a world where there are Octobers.
She had dreamed some brilliant dreams during the past winter and now they lay in the dust around her. In her present mood of self-disgust, she could not immediately begin dreaming again. And she discovered that, while solitude with dreams is glorious, solitude without them has few charms.
Rivers know this: there is no hurry. We shall get there some day.
The highest tribute to the dead is not grief but gratitude.
One of the shocks of a 50th birthday is realizing the fundamental fact that your youth is irrevocably over.
Live everyday as if it were your last because someday you're going to be right.
If time were a bolt of cloth,” said Om, “I would cut out all the bad parts. Snip out the scary nights and stitch together the good parts, to make time bearable. Then I could wear it like a coat, always live happily.
there is no ascent to the heights without prior descent into darkness, no new life without some form of death.
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