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Yet, she said to herself, form the dawn of time odes have been sung to love; wreaths heaped and roses; and if you asked nine people out of ten they would say they wanted nothing but this--love; while the women, judging from her own experience, would all the time be feeling, This is not what we want; there is nothing more tedious, puerile, and inhumane than this; yet it is also beautiful and necessary.
Virginia Woolf
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Interpretation

What this quote means

The quote reflects the complex nature of love, highlighting its beauty and necessity despite its challenges.

Virginia Woolf's quote encapsulates the paradox of love, pointing out that while love is often idealized and sought after, it can also be viewed as tedious and demanding. Women, in particular, may find that the conventional understanding of love does not fully account for their true needs and desires. It brings attention to the tension between societal expectations of love and the personal experiences that complicate it, suggesting that love is both beautiful and burdensome.

Themes

LoveBeautyNecessitySacrificeWomen

In practice

Example use cases

In a speech about the complexities of modern relationships, one could insert this quote to illustrate the duality of love.

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