Love consists in leaving the loved one space to be themselves while providing the security within which that self may flourish.
Tony JudtRead
Love, it seems to me, is that condition in which one is most contentedly oneself.
Interpretation
Love allows individuals to be their true selves while experiencing deep contentment.
In this quote, Tony Judt expresses the idea that love creates an environment where people can fully embrace their authentic selves. When one is in love, there is a sense of safety and acceptance that fosters inner peace and fulfillment, allowing individuals to be genuinely who they are without fear of judgment.
In practice
In a wedding speech celebrating love and partnership.
Love consists in leaving the loved one space to be themselves while providing the security within which that self may flourish.
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