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If equal affection cannot be, let the more loving be me.
W. H. Auden
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Interpretation

What this quote means

The quote expresses a willingness to be the one who loves more in a relationship, even if affection cannot be reciprocated equally.

In this quote, W. H. Auden suggests that when love is not perfectly reciprocated, one should take the initiative to love more deeply. It highlights the beauty and strength of unconditional love, indicating that the act of loving someone fully can outweigh the need for equal affection in return.

Themes

LoveAffectionUnconditionalRelationshipSacrifice

In practice

Example use cases

This quote can be used in a wedding speech to emphasize devotion.

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