It has become necessary for me to have this woman, so as to save myself from the ridicule of being in love with her: for to what lengths will a man not be driven by thwarted desire?
Pierre Choderlos De LaclosRead
It was there, in particular, that I confirmed the truth that love, which we cry up as the source of our pleasures, is nothing more than an excuse for them.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Love serves as a justification for our pleasures rather than being the true source of happiness.
In this quote, Pierre Choderlos De Laclos reflects on the nature of love, suggesting that while we often elevate love to a position of ultimate importance in our lives, it is actually a mere pretext for seeking pleasure and fulfillment. This viewpoint challenges the romanticized notion of love, urging us to examine the deeper motivations behind our pursuits of joy and connection.
Themes
LovePleasureHappinessTruthJustification
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about the motivations behind relationships at a social gathering.
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