It has become necessary for me to have this woman, so as to save myself from the ridicule of being in love with her: for to what lengths will a man not be driven by thwarted desire?
Pierre Choderlos De LaclosRead
How characteristic of your perverse heart that longs only for what happens to be out of reach.
Interpretation
This quote reflects on the human tendency to desire what we cannot attain.
In this quote, Pierre Choderlos De Laclos highlights a common trait of human nature: the inclination to yearn for things that are beyond our grasp. This longing can stem from a complex interplay of desire and dissatisfaction, suggesting that people often find themselves fixated on unattainable goals, leading to an unfulfilled existence. It serves as a reminder of the challenges and paradoxes of human aspiration.
In practice
In a motivational speech about overcoming desires, one could use this quote to illustrate the futility of chasing the unattainable.
It has become necessary for me to have this woman, so as to save myself from the ridicule of being in love with her: for to what lengths will a man not be driven by thwarted desire?
Humanity is not perfect in any fashion; no more in the case of evil than in that of good. The criminal has his virtues, just as the honest man has his weaknesses.
Cast between the extremes of happiness and misfortune, uncertainty is a cruel torment.
I am astonished at the pleasure one experiences in doing good; and I should be tempted to believe that what we call virtuous people have not so much merit as they lead us to suppose.
It was there, in particular, that I confirmed the truth that love, which we cry up as the source of our pleasures, is nothing more than an excuse for them.
...it is not for the illusion of a moment to govern the choice of a lifetime.
One thing was certain, that the white kitten had had nothing to do with it-- it was the black kitten's fault entirely.
Not from the stars do I my judgement pluck, And yet methinks I have astronomy. But not to tell of good or evil luck, Of plagues, of dearths, or season's quality; Nor can I fortune to brief minutes tell ... Or say with princes if it shall go well.
Since science's competence extends to observable and measurable phenomena, not to the inner being of things, and to the means, not to the ends of human life, it would be nonsense to expect that the progress of science will provide men with a new type of metaphysics, ethics, or religion.
Each of us literally chooses, by his way of attending to things, what sort of universe he shall appear to himself to inhabit.
The world is mere change, and this life, opinion.
There has to be evil so that good can prove its purity above it. To live a pure unselfish life, one must count nothing as one's own in the midst of abundance.
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