What we want is to see the child in pursuit of knowledge, and not knowledge in pursuit of the child.
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All young women begin by believing they can change and reform the men they marry. They can't.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Young women often think they can change their spouses, but this belief is misguided.
This quote by George Bernard Shaw reflects the common misconception among young women that they can influence or alter the behavior of their partners after marriage. It suggests that attempts to change another person, especially in terms of deep-seated traits or habits, are often futile and can lead to disappointment.
Themes
ChangeRelationshipsBeliefMarriageExpectations
In practice
Example use cases
This quote is relevant in discussions about marriage and expectations during a relationship seminar.
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