Never let your inferiors do you a favor - it will be extremely costly.
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Never let your inferiors do you a favor - it will be extremely costly.
A helping word to one in trouble is often like a switch on a railroad track-an inch between wreck and smooth-rolling prosperity.
What I regret most in my life are failures of kindness.
Advice for a human. 81. You can't find happiness looking for the meaning of life. Meaning is only the third most important thing. It comes after loving and being. 82. If you think something is ugly, look harder. Ugliness is just a failure of seeing.
Every time we give a musician the advice to give away the music and sell the T-shirt, we're saying, "Don't make your living in this more elevated way. Instead, reverse this social progress, and choose a more physical way to make a living." We're sending them to peasanthood, very much like the Maoists have.
Begin at the beginning and go on till you come to the end; then stop.
Grown-up people do not know that a child can give exceedingly good advice even in the most difficult case.
When you are right you cannot be too radical; when you are wrong, you cannot be too conservative.
I know now that what makes a fool is an inability to take even his own good advice.
If I can give you any advice, it's this: every hour that you spend sat on the couch doing nothing, put it to good use, because when you have kids, an hour is like a lifetime.
Time goes too quickly. This is the advice that my mother should have given me from her hospital bed. Instead of vague, unknowable quips like "Be careful what you wish for," she should have told me time slides away on a hillside of loose shale and takes everything in its path - dreams, opportunities, hopes. And youth. It takes that fastest of all.
Friendship is the greatest of worldly goods. Certainly to me it is the chief happiness of life. If I had to give a piece of advice to a young man about a place to live, I think I should say, 'sacrifice almost everything to live where you can be near your friends.'
My brained warned me, but my heart didn't want to take its advice.
It's a little embarrassing that after 45 years of research & study, the best advice I can give people is to be a little kinder to each other.
There is as much difference between the counsel that a friend giveth, and that a man giveth himself, as there is between the counsel of a friend and of a flatterer. For there is no such flatterer as is a man's self.
The advice that is wanted is commonly not welcome and that which is not wanted, evidently an effrontery.
Resolve not to be poor: whatever you have, spend less. Poverty is a great enemy to human happiness; it certainly destroys liberty, and it makes some virtues impracticable, and others extremely difficult.
You should read books like you take medicine, by advice, and not by advertisement.
Real mothers don't just listen with humble embarrassment to the elderly lady who offers unsolicited advice in the checkout line when a child is throwing a tantrum. We take the child, dump him in the lady's cart, and say, "Great. Maybe you can do a better job." Real mothers know that it's okay to eat cold pizza for breakfast. Real mothers admit it is easier to fail at this job than to succeed.
Look like the innocent flower, But be the serpent under it.
You will face many defeats in your life, but never let yourself be defeated.
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