Dale Carnegie

When I asked him -Mr.Henry Ford- if he ever worried, he replied: "No. I believe God is managing affairs and that He doesn't need any advice from me. With God in charge, I believe that every-thing will work out for the best in the end. So what is there to worry about?

Take a chance! All life is a chance. The man who goes farthest is generally the one who is willing to do and dare.

By talking to yourself about the things you have to be grateful for you can fill your mind with thoughts that soar and sing.

It isn't what you have, or who you are, or where you are, or what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy. It is what you think about.

I can look back at my own life and see where a few words of praise have sharply changed my entire future. Can't you say the same thing about your life?

Instead of worrying about what people say of you, why not spend time trying to accomplish something they will admire.

When dealing with people, remember you are not dealing with creatures of logic, but creatures of emotion.

Life is bigger than processes and overflows and dwarfs them.

Begin with praise and honest appreciation. Call attention to people's mistakes indirectly. Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person. Ask questions instead of giving direct orders. Make the fault easy to correct. Make the other person happy about doing what you suggest.

If you want to gather honey, don't kick over the beehive.

Make a man laugh a good hearty laugh, and you've paved the way for friendship. When a man laughs with you, he, to some extent, likes you.

The life of many a person could probably be changed if only someone would make him feel important.

You are something new in this world. Never before, since the beginning of time, has there ever been anybody exactly like you; and never again throughout all the ages to come will there ever be anybody exactly like you again.

Your thoughts make you what you are; by changing our #‎ thoughts we can change our lives.

How often we all have heard speakers begin by calling the attention of the audience to their lack of preparation or lack of ability. If you are not prepared, the audience will probably discover it without your assistance.

Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person.

If you have worries, there is no better way to eliminate them than by walking them off. Just take them out for a walk. They may take wings and fly away!

Obviously, circumstances alone do not make us happy or unhappy. It is the way we react to circumstances that determines our feelings. Jesus said that the kingdom of heaven is within you. That is where the kingdom of hell is, too.

So if you aspire to be a good conversationali st, be an attentive listener. To be interesting, be interested. Ask questions that other persons will enjoy answering. Encourage them to talk about themselves and their accomplishments

Develop success from failures. Discouragement and failure are two of the surest stepping stones to success.

Be sympathetic with the other person's ideas and desires.