Occupation: Clinical Psychologist Birth: 1956
The mature person meets the demands of life, while the immature person demands that life meet her demands..
One of the first signs that you’re beginning to develop boundaries is a sense of resentment, frustration, or anger at the subtle and not-so-subtle vi….
Independence is not an option for us. Remember, God existed without us..
People tend to look at dating sort of like a safari - like they're trying to land the trophy..
We have our own thoughts, and if we want others to know them, we must tell them..
There's no better way to become a disintegrated character than to be your own authority..
To rescue people from the natural consequences of their behavior is to render them powerless..
Leadership is not taken, it is given. People give leadership to those that they trust. They allow people that they trust to have influence over their….
Be Hard on the issue, Soft on the person..
To grow, we need things that we do not have and cannot provide, and we need to have a source of those things who looks favorably upon us and who does….
Marriage is not slavery. It is based on a love relationship deeply rooted in freedom. Each partner is free from the other and therefore free to love ….
Because dating is a human exercise, it can be a tightrope fraught with danger. You will be dating imperfect people, and some of them are more imperfe….
In a very real way, ownership is the essence of leadership. When you are ridiculously in charge, then you own whatever happens in a company, school, ….
To get greater than 100% return on a growth step, give up defensiveness. Defensiveness stifles performance, and destroys relationships..
When truth presents itself, the wise person see the light, takes it in, and makes adjustments. The fool tries to adjust the truth so he does not have….
Anger is frustration at the fact that we are not God, and do not have control over reality..
Dating is about finding out who you are and who others are. If you show up in a masquerade outfit, neither is going to happen..
Being right can never compete with doing well..
It’s scary to realize that the only thing holding our friends to us isn’t our performance, or our lovability, or their guilt, or their obligation. Th….
A culture is like an immune system. It operates through the laws of systems, just like a body. If a body has an infection, the immune system deals wi….
When a person travels through a few years with an organization, or with a partnership, or any other kind of working association, he leaves a 'wake' b….