Of the widow's countless death-duties there is really just one that matters: on the first anniversary of her husband's death the widow should think I kept myself alive.
Joyce Carol OatesRead
Writing! The activity for which the only adequate bribe is the possibility of suicide, one day.
Interpretation
Writing can be a difficult and tormenting process, often leading to a sense of despair.
This quote by Joyce Carol Oates highlights the intense struggles and emotional turmoil that writers face in their craft. The phrase suggests that the challenges of writing can be so overwhelming that the only motivation strong enough to sustain a writer is the existential weight of their own thoughts, implying that the act of writing may sometimes feel like a desperate plea for meaning or escape from suffering.
In practice
In a writing workshop when discussing the emotional challenges of the craft.
Of the widow's countless death-duties there is really just one that matters: on the first anniversary of her husband's death the widow should think I kept myself alive.
I never really knew I wanted to 'be' a writer, but I was always writing from a very young age. It became more conscious as an ideal when I was in my twenties.
I'm drawn to write about upstate New York in the way in which a dreamer might have recurring dreams. My childhood and girlhood were spent in upstate New York, in the country north of Buffalo and West of Rochester. So this part of New York state is very familiar to me and, with its economic difficulties, has become emblematic of much of American life.
My writing is often a way of 'bearing witness' for others who lack the education and the opportunity to tell their own stories, so I hope that my writing won't be affected too much by my personal life.
The worst cynicism: a belief in luck.
. . . there is a wish in the heart of mankind to be distracted and confused. Truth is but one attraction, and not always the most powerful.
Radio... force-feeds us music... everywhere and all the time... sewage-water music in which music is dying.
The creation of a single world comes from a huge number of fragments and chaos.
There is a connection, hard to explain logically but easy to feel, between achievement in public life and progress in the arts.
When the script is finished, and you're sitting around at a table read, and all the actors are reading the words that you've written, and you're hearing it out loud for the first time, that is always, every single time, no matter what, a magical process.
I don't want people at my shows to come out and say, 'I just saw a cool show.' I want them to say, 'I had fun at the show.' I want it to be a collaborative thing and be part of the audience and have them be part of me. I try to interact with everyone there and have them be equal to me because they are.
For me, a page of good prose is where one hears the rain and the noise of battle. It has the power to give grief or universality that lends it a youthful beauty.
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