Of the widow's countless death-duties there is really just one that matters: on the first anniversary of her husband's death the widow should think I kept myself alive.
Joyce Carol OatesRead
The worst cynicism: a belief in luck.
Interpretation
Believing in luck reflects a lack of agency and responsibility in one's life choices.
Joyce Carol Oates suggests that relying on luck is a form of cynicism, as it implies that individuals do not have control over their outcomes. Instead of taking responsibility for their actions and decisions, they defer to chance, which can lead to a passive approach to life that ultimately undermines personal growth and achievement.
In practice
This quote can be shared during a motivational speech to highlight the importance of effort over reliance on luck.
Of the widow's countless death-duties there is really just one that matters: on the first anniversary of her husband's death the widow should think I kept myself alive.
I never really knew I wanted to 'be' a writer, but I was always writing from a very young age. It became more conscious as an ideal when I was in my twenties.
I'm drawn to write about upstate New York in the way in which a dreamer might have recurring dreams. My childhood and girlhood were spent in upstate New York, in the country north of Buffalo and West of Rochester. So this part of New York state is very familiar to me and, with its economic difficulties, has become emblematic of much of American life.
My writing is often a way of 'bearing witness' for others who lack the education and the opportunity to tell their own stories, so I hope that my writing won't be affected too much by my personal life.
. . . there is a wish in the heart of mankind to be distracted and confused. Truth is but one attraction, and not always the most powerful.
When my brother called to inform me, on the morning of May 22, 2003, that our mother Caroline Oates had died suddenly of a stroke, it was a shock from which, in a way, I have yet to recover.
For what Harley Street specialist has time to understand the body, let alone the mind or both in combination, when he is a slave to thirteen thousand a year?
For death is no more than a turning of us over from time to eternity.
Atheism is indeed the most daring of all dogmas . . . for it is the assertion of a universal negative.
What is the essence of life? To serve others and to do good.
The need to leave a legacy is our spiritual need to have a sense of meaning, purpose, personal congruence, and contribution.
A quarrel is quickly settled when deserted by one party; there is no battle unless there be two.
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