The need to be right can arise from a fear of being disrespected. Or it may come out of the fear of being seen as we really are: as flawed human beings who are perfectly imperfect and full of contradictions and confusions.
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Listening is an activity. It's not passive. We are creating the world by listening all the time.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Listening is an active process that shapes our reality.
Julian Treasure emphasizes the importance of active listening in our daily lives, suggesting that it is not merely a passive act but a fundamental activity that influences how we perceive and interact with the world. By consciously engaging in listening, we actively participate in the creation of our reality, shaping our thoughts and connections with others.
Themes
ListeningActiveCommunicationRealityEngagement
In practice
Example use cases
In a workshop on effective communication, you might use this quote to highlight the importance of listening skills.
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