The need to be right can arise from a fear of being disrespected. Or it may come out of the fear of being seen as we really are: as flawed human beings who are perfectly imperfect and full of contradictions and confusions.
Julian TreasureRead
Just three minutes a day of silence is a wonderful exercise to reset your ears and to recalibrate so that you can hear the quiet again. If you can't get absolute silence, go for quiet; that's absolutely fine.
Interpretation
Taking time for silence helps reset your perception and appreciation of sound.
In today's noisy world, finding even a few minutes of silence can be a powerful exercise in mindfulness. Julian Treasure emphasizes that this practice not only helps to reset our auditory senses but also enhances our ability to appreciate quieter sounds in life, reminding us of the importance of both silence and the quieter moments we often overlook.
In practice
During a meditation session to emphasize the need for inner peace.
The need to be right can arise from a fear of being disrespected. Or it may come out of the fear of being seen as we really are: as flawed human beings who are perfectly imperfect and full of contradictions and confusions.
You can't truly listen to someone and do anything else at the same time.
The human voice: It's the instrument we all play. It's the most powerful sound in the world, probably. It's the only one that can start a war or say 'I love you.' And yet many people have the experience that when they speak, people don't listen to them.
Intention is very important in sound, in listening. When I married my wife, I promised her I would listen to her every day as if for the first time. Now that's something I fall short of on a daily basis.
People find birdsong relaxing and reassuring because over thousands of years, they have learnt when the birds sing, they are safe; it's when birds stop singing that people need to worry.
This devaluing of listening is handed down from generation to generation. There are many children who don't have the experience of being listened to by their parents.
I am of the opinion, and even more so the older I get, that it is more difficult to have hope than it is to despair. And I mean this in the sense that in order to have hope you must acknowledge the despair and then you have to get beyond it. Taken from a radio interview given on BBC Radio 4's Open Book
A wise man watches his faults more closely than his virtues; fools reverse the order.
There are two good things in life - freedom of thought and freedom of action.
The open mind never acts: when we have done our utmost to arrive at a reasonable conclusion, we still must close our minds for the moment with a snap, and act dogmatically on our conclusions.
If you take pride in your attainment or become discouraged because of your idealistic effort, your practice will confine you by a thick wall.
People with the best intentions will often give you advice on why you shouldn’t take a risk because of what could happen. While some of what they say may be true, you should never allow them to get their negative anchors into your mind because, like them, you too will begin to sink. Next time this happens, throw them a life-line, and ask them what is good about their situation.
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