Why do you put your self esteem in the hands of complete strangers?
Helena Bonham CarterRead
I just went and got an agent because I thought I can create my own world - you can't right your own life, but you can escape to a world where you can have control.
Interpretation
The quote expresses the idea that while we may not be able to control our reality, we can seek refuge in our imagination or creative endeavors.
Helena Bonham Carter highlights the importance of imagination and creativity as a means of escapism. She suggests that even though we cannot script every aspect of our lives, we can cultivate our own narratives and experiences through art or creative expression, giving us a sense of control in a chaotic world.
In practice
This quote can be used as inspiration during a creative writing workshop.
Why do you put your self esteem in the hands of complete strangers?
Sometimes I get it right and I sometimes I get it wrong. But fashion is all about having fun. I think fashion has been hijacked by the fashion industry creating rules on what one should wear and I feel like breaking the mold and seeing that the world won’t crumble.
Sometimes I go, “What am I doing with my life?” But then I get letters from young women, or people come up to me, and they say, “You’ve made such a difference to my confidence.” And that is a good thing. I should read more fan mail though. I’m crap at responding.
My life had been very work-orientated, and all in close-up. Once I had the family, it went into sudden widescreen.
Very early on, you figure out that you put your self-esteem in the hands of strangers. There's a different commodity. There's the Helena Bonham Carter that everyone thinks they know, who really has nothing to do with me. But you just have to let that go.
Wear what you feel comfortable with. People say nasty things about what I wear in the street. I'm always in worst dressed lists, but you just have to dress for yourself and nobody else.
It seems to me that's the only way you can have a truly creative aggregate of people is if they're all contributing in different ways.
To create something you must be something.
I was in a taxi the other night, and we started talking about life and the taxi driver goes, 'Chaos and creativity go together. If you lose one per cent of your chaos, you lose your creativity.' I said that's the most brilliant thing I've heard. I needed to hear that years ago.
I think that in order to struggle you have to be creative. In my life, creativity has been something that has sustained me; it awoke my spiritual struggle.
In order to have a real relationship with our creativity, we must take the time and care to cultivate it.
A hunch is creativity trying to tell you something.
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