Why do you put your self esteem in the hands of complete strangers?
Helena Bonham CarterRead
My life had been very work-orientated, and all in close-up. Once I had the family, it went into sudden widescreen.
Interpretation
The quote reflects a shift in perspective from a work-focused life to one that embraces family and broader experiences.
Helena Bonham Carter emphasizes how having a family changed her worldview from a narrow focus on work to a more expansive appreciation of life. The metaphor of 'close-up' versus 'widescreen' illustrates how family brings depth, richness, and a broader spectrum of experiences to her life.
In practice
In a speech about work-life balance, one could use this quote to emphasize the importance of family.
Why do you put your self esteem in the hands of complete strangers?
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