It is in books, poems, paintings which often give us the confidence to take seriously feelings in ourselves that we might otherwise never have thought to acknowledge.
Alain De BottonRead
It's almost a blessing when we meet people who naturally want to do the sort of things that are in high demand in society. What a gift to do that, as opposed to other people who would say, 'I want to be a novelist but actually I have to be an accountant.'
Interpretation
Finding work that aligns with one’s passions is a true blessing.
Alain De Botton emphasizes the joy and privilege of engaging in work that resonates with one's natural interests and societal needs. He contrasts this with the disappointment of having to pursue careers that do not fulfill personal aspirations, highlighting the importance of aligning one's career with one's true passions.
In practice
During a career fair, to encourage students to pursue their passions.
It is in books, poems, paintings which often give us the confidence to take seriously feelings in ourselves that we might otherwise never have thought to acknowledge.
Taking architecture seriously therefore makes some singular and strenuous demands upon us...It means conceding that we are inconveniently vulnerable to the colour of our wallpaper and that our sense of purpose may be derailed by an unfortunate bedspread
The more closely we analyze what we consider 'sexy,' the more clearly we will understand that eroticism is the feeling of excitement we experience at finding another human being who shares our values and our sense of the meaning of existence.
Good books put a finger on emotions that are deeply our own - but that we could never have described on our own.
The challenge of modern relationships: how to prove more interesting than the other's smartphone.
It is the most ambitious and driven among us who are the most sorely in need of having our reckless hopes dampened through immersive dousings in the darkness which religions have explored. This is a particular priority for secular Americans, perhaps the most anxious and disappointed people on earth, for their nation infuses them with the most extreme hopes about what they may be able to achieve in their working lives and relationships.
Right reason is stronger than force.
Be thankful for the thorns and thistles, which keep you from being in love with this world, and becoming an idolater.
The pessimist borrows trouble; the optimists lend encouragement.
This is the greatest gift God can give you: to understand what happened in your life. To have it explained. It is the peace you have been searching for.
See everything, overlook a great deal, correct a little.
Most of us are taught from an early age to pay far more attention to signals coming from other people than from within. We are encouraged to ignore our own needs and wants and to concentrate on living up to others expectations.
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