And enough for me that when my hand touched your shoulder, you leaned on me; and when you felt me slip away, you called my name.
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Americans love to pick up, move on, start over. But instead of being somebody fresh and new, they become somebody lonely and lost, or, far too often these days, they become nobody at all, a machine for satisfying hunger, without loyalty or honor or duty.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote reflects on the tendency of Americans to seek new beginnings, which can lead to feelings of isolation and loss of identity.
Orson Scott Card's quote critiques the American cultural inclination towards constant reinvention and starting over, suggesting that in the pursuit of becoming someone new, individuals often lose their sense of self and connection to others. Instead of embracing change as a means of personal growth, people may end up feeling lonely and directionless, merely existing as functional beings without deeper relationships or values.
Themes
IdentityChangeLonelinessReinventionCulture
In practice
Example use cases
In a speech discussing personal growth, one might use this quote to underline the importance of maintaining connections while pursuing change.
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