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When we suffer anguish we return to early childhood because that is the period in which we first learnt to suffer the experience of total loss. It was more than that. It was the period in which we suffered more total losses than in all the rest of our life put together.
John Berger
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Interpretation

What this quote means

This quote reflects on how our early childhood experiences shape our understanding of loss and suffering.

In this quote, John Berger highlights how the profound experiences of anguish and loss during early childhood have a lasting impact on our emotional lives. He suggests that the intensity and frequency of these early losses can be so overwhelming that they leave a deep imprint, influencing how we perceive and cope with pain throughout our lives.

Themes

SufferingLossChildhoodAnguishEmotionsPhilosophy

In practice

Example use cases

In a speech on mental health, you might say this quote to emphasize the importance of addressing childhood trauma.

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