The true secret of giving advice is, after you have honestly given it, to be perfectly indifferent whether it is taken or not, and never persist in trying to set people right.
There are apartments in the soul which have a glorious outlook; from whose windows you can see across the river of death, and into the shining city beyond; but how often are these neglected for the lower ones, which have earthward-looking windows.
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What this quote means
The quote emphasizes the importance of focusing on higher spiritual and moral aspirations rather than being distracted by mundane concerns.
Henry Ward Beecher's quote suggests that within each individual's soul, there are aspects that can offer profound insight and connection to greater truths beyond our earthly existence. This metaphorical 'glorious outlook' symbolizes the elevated perspectives and spiritual awareness that can guide us through life's challenges and into a more meaningful existence. However, too often, people neglect these higher callings in favor of more immediate, materialistic choices represented by the 'lower ones', thus missing out on the deeper fulfillment that comes from acknowledging and striving for those higher ideals.
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Example use cases
In a motivational speech about personal growth.
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