We have to realize that we are as deeply afraid to live and to love as we are to die.
R. D. LaingRead
Attempts to wake before our time are often punished, especially by those who love us most. Because they, bless them, are asleep. They think anyone who wakes up, or who, still asleep, realizes that what is taken to be real is a ‘dream’ is going crazy.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote suggests that those who challenge the norms of reality may be misunderstood or rejected by those who do not perceive life in the same way.
R. D. Laing's quote conveys the idea that when individuals try to awaken from the illusions of societal norms and perceptions, they often face resistance, particularly from loved ones. This resistance is rooted in the discomfort that arises when one's understanding of reality is challenged; those who remain within conventional beliefs may perceive the awakening individual as unstable or mad, ultimately emphasizing the conflict between personal enlightenment and societal acceptance.
Themes
AwakeningRealityPerceptionTruthUnderstanding
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about personal growth and enlightenment, this quote serves as a reminder of the challenges faced when trying to break free from societal expectations.
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