We have to realize that we are as deeply afraid to live and to love as we are to die.
R. D. LaingRead
Madness need not be all breakdown. It may also be break-through. It is potential liberation and renewal as well as enslavement and existential death.
Interpretation
Madness can lead to both destruction and a new understanding or liberation.
R. D. Laing's quote suggests that madness should not be viewed solely as a negative experience or breakdown; instead, it can also represent a breakthrough, a potential for personal liberation and renewal. This suggests a duality in the concept of madness, highlighting that while it can lead to suffering and existential crises, it can also pave the way for profound personal transformation and insight.
In practice
In a mental health seminar discussing the positive aspects of mental illness.
We have to realize that we are as deeply afraid to live and to love as we are to die.
Whether life is worth living depends on whether there is love in life.
The experience and behavior that gets labeled schizophrenic is a special strategy that a person invents in order to live in an unlivable situation.
The range of what we think and do is limited by what we fail to notice.
Here we have the paradox, the potentially tragic paradox, that our relatedness to others is an essential aspect of our being, as is our separateness, but any particular person is not a necessary part of our being.
There is a great deal of pain in life and perhaps the only pain that can be avoided is the pain that comes from trying to avoid pain.
Only the shallow know themselves.
What makes loneliness an anguish is not that I have no one to share my burden, but this: I have only my own burden to bear.
From silly devotions and from sour-faced saints, good Lord, deliver us.
Other people's traditions look charming and decorative and exotic. They're nice places to visit on holiday, but you wouldn't want to live with one.
The self cannot be self without other selves.
People can't seem to get it through their heads that there is never any healing or closure. Ever. There is only a short pause before the next "horrifying" event. People forget there is such a thing as memory, and that when a wound "heals" it leaves a permanent scar that never goes away, but merely fades a little. What really ought to be said after one of these so-called tragedies is, "Let the scarring begin.
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