We have to realize that we are as deeply afraid to live and to love as we are to die.
R. D. LaingRead
Madness need not be all breakdown. It may also be break-through. It is potential liberation and renewal as well as enslavement and existential death.
Interpretation
Madness can lead to both destruction and a new understanding or liberation.
R. D. Laing's quote suggests that madness should not be viewed solely as a negative experience or breakdown; instead, it can also represent a breakthrough, a potential for personal liberation and renewal. This suggests a duality in the concept of madness, highlighting that while it can lead to suffering and existential crises, it can also pave the way for profound personal transformation and insight.
In practice
In a mental health seminar discussing the positive aspects of mental illness.
We have to realize that we are as deeply afraid to live and to love as we are to die.
Whether life is worth living depends on whether there is love in life.
The experience and behavior that gets labeled schizophrenic is a special strategy that a person invents in order to live in an unlivable situation.
The range of what we think and do is limited by what we fail to notice.
Here we have the paradox, the potentially tragic paradox, that our relatedness to others is an essential aspect of our being, as is our separateness, but any particular person is not a necessary part of our being.
There is a great deal of pain in life and perhaps the only pain that can be avoided is the pain that comes from trying to avoid pain.
He works in us and with us, not against us or without us; so that his assistance is an encouragement to the facilitating of the work, and no occasion of neglect as to the work itself.
It is not down in any map; true places never are.
The mob is the mother of tyrants.
Two simple principles lie at the bottom of the whole matter, and they may be precipitated into two rules. The first is that, when there is a choice, the milder drink is always the better-not merely the safer but the better. The second is that no really enlightened drinker ever takes a drink at a time when he has any work to do. There is, of course, more to it than this; but these are sufficient for the beginner, and even the virtuoso never outgrows them.
The essence of the liberal outlook lies not in what opinions are held, but in how they are held; instead of being held dogmatically, they are held tentatively, and with a consciousness that new evidence may at any moment lead to their abandonment.
Small natures require despotism to exercise their sinews, as great souls thirst for equality to give play to their heart.
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