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I went to see the Beatles last month... And I heard 20,000 girls screaming together at the Beatles... and I couldn't hear what they were screaming, either... But you don't have to... They're screaming Me! Me! Me! Me!... I'm Me!... That's the cry of the ego, and that's the cry of this rally!... Me! Me! Me! Me!... And that's why wars get fought... ego... because enough people want to scream Pay attention to Me... Yep, you're playing their game.
Tom Wolfe
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What this quote means

This quote reflects on the nature of ego and self-importance in society.

Tom Wolfe's quote emphasizes the overwhelming desire for individual recognition and attention, which he associates with the broader implications of ego-driven behavior. He connects this craving for validation to societal conflicts and wars, suggesting that when many individuals prioritize their egos, it leads to collective turmoil and strife, as they seek acknowledgment and elevation of self over the common good.

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EgoSocietySelfAttentionConflictValidationWar

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Example use cases

During a lecture on human behavior, I quoted Tom Wolfe to illustrate how ego influences both personal relationships and societal issues.

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