I saw my ex-husband in the street. I was sitting on the steps of the new library. Hello, my life, I said. We had once been married for twenty-seven years, so I felt justified. He said, What? What life? No life of mine.
Grace PaleyRead
The best training is to read and write, no matter what. Don't live with a lover or roommate who doesn't respect your work. Don't lie, buy time, borrow to buy time. Write what will stop your breath if you don't write.
Interpretation
The quote emphasizes the importance of reading and writing as essential skills, while also stressing the need for respect in personal relationships.
Grace Paley highlights the critical role that reading and writing play in personal and professional development. She encourages individuals to pursue these skills earnestly and warns against compromising one's work and passion by surrounding oneself with unsupportive people. The call to 'write what will stop your breath' serves as a powerful reminder to create meaningful, impactful work that reflects one's true self and passions.
In practice
In a writing workshop, to encourage participants to embrace their creativity.
I saw my ex-husband in the street. I was sitting on the steps of the new library. Hello, my life, I said. We had once been married for twenty-seven years, so I felt justified. He said, What? What life? No life of mine.
…I go through a story for lies. I might discover the lie of trying to show off. Sometimes they’re lies of character. Sometimes they are lies of writing the most beautiful sentence in the world that has nothing to do with the story.
You become a writer because you need to become a writer - nothing else.
I begin by writing paragraphs that don’t have an immediate relation to a plot. The sound of the story comes first.
This hill crossed with broken pines and maples lumpy with the burial mounds of uprooted hemlocks (hurricane of '38) out of their rotting hearts generations rise trying once more to become the forest just beyond them tall enough to be called trees in their youth like aspen a bouquet of young beech is gathered they still wear last summer's leaves the lightest brown almost translucent how their stubbornness has decorated the winter woods.
Write what will stop your breath if you don’t write.
As an educator, I try to get people to be fundamentally curious and to question ideas that they might have or that are shared by others. In that state of mind, they have earned a kind of inoculation against the fuzzy thinking of these weird ideas floating around out there.
No one can teach writing, but classes may stimulate the urge to write. If you are born a writer, you will inevitably and helplessly write. A born writer has self-knowledge. Read, read, read. And if you are a fiction writer, don't confine yourself to reading fiction. Every writer is first a wide reader.
I consider the world, this Earth, to be like a school, and our life the classrooms.
Research shows that children do better in school and are less likely to drop out when fathers are involved. Engaged parents can strengthen communities, mentor and tutor students, and demonstrate through their actions how much they value their children's education.
Syntax, my lad. It has been restored to the highest place in the republic.
Books and all forms of writing have always been objects of terror to those who seek to suppress the truth.
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