I saw my ex-husband in the street. I was sitting on the steps of the new library. Hello, my life, I said. We had once been married for twenty-seven years, so I felt justified. He said, What? What life? No life of mine.
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The best training is to read and write, no matter what. Don't live with a lover or roommate who doesn't respect your work. Don't lie, buy time, borrow to buy time. Write what will stop your breath if you don't write.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote emphasizes the importance of reading and writing as essential skills, while also stressing the need for respect in personal relationships.
Grace Paley highlights the critical role that reading and writing play in personal and professional development. She encourages individuals to pursue these skills earnestly and warns against compromising one's work and passion by surrounding oneself with unsupportive people. The call to 'write what will stop your breath' serves as a powerful reminder to create meaningful, impactful work that reflects one's true self and passions.
Themes
ReadingWritingRespectWorkPassion
In practice
Example use cases
In a writing workshop, to encourage participants to embrace their creativity.
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