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When we of the so-called better classes are scared as men were never scared in history at material ugliness and hardship; when we put off marriage until our house can be artistic, and quake at the thought of having a child without a bank-account and doomed to manual labor, it is time for thinking men to protest against so unmanly and irreligious a state of opinion.
William James
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What this quote means

This quote critiques the fear and hesitancy of the affluent regarding life decisions influenced by material conditions.

William James expresses concern about the anxiety of the 'better classes' who delay significant life choices, such as marriage and child-rearing, due to financial worries and a desire for aesthetic perfection. He argues that this mindset is not only impractical but also undermines the essence of manliness and spirituality, suggesting that individuals should challenge these fears and embrace life's challenges regardless of material circumstances.

Themes

FearMaterialismLife ChoicesMarriageParenthood

In practice

Example use cases

In a speech about overcoming societal fears during economic downturns.

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