Don't be so anxious about it,' she laughed. 'I'm not used to being loved. I wouldn't know what to do; I never got the trick of it.' She looked down at him, shy and fatigued. 'So here we are. I told you years ago that I had the makings of Cinderella.' He took her hand; she drew it back instinctively and then replaced it in his. 'Beg your pardon. Not even used to being touched. But I'm not afraid of you, if you stay quiet and don't move suddenly.
A big man has no time really to do anything but just sit and be big.
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What this quote means
True greatness involves being present and embodying one's success rather than being overly busy with trivial tasks.
F. Scott Fitzgerald suggests that a truly successful person, or a 'big man', should focus on embodying their stature and presence rather than getting caught up in the hustle of daily activities. This reflects the idea that genuine accomplishment comes from being authentic and secure in oneβs identity, rather than being preoccupied with the tasks that can distract from what truly matters.
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In a speech about leadership, I might say, 'As Fitzgerald reminds us, a big man has no time but to sit and be big, highlighting the importance of presence in our roles.'
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