A big man has no time really to do anything but just sit and be big.
Interpretation
True greatness involves being present and embodying one's success rather than being overly busy with trivial tasks.
F. Scott Fitzgerald suggests that a truly successful person, or a 'big man', should focus on embodying their stature and presence rather than getting caught up in the hustle of daily activities. This reflects the idea that genuine accomplishment comes from being authentic and secure in oneβs identity, rather than being preoccupied with the tasks that can distract from what truly matters.
In practice
In a speech about leadership, I might say, 'As Fitzgerald reminds us, a big man has no time but to sit and be big, highlighting the importance of presence in our roles.'
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But you can love more than just one person, can't you?
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I don't go near the money and the money doesn't go near me.
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