It is in books, poems, paintings which often give us the confidence to take seriously feelings in ourselves that we might otherwise never have thought to acknowledge.
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Writing a book has about it some of the anxiety of telling a joke and having to wait several years to know whether or not it was funny.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Writing a book involves uncertainty about its reception, similar to the delayed feedback of telling a joke.
Alain De Botton's quote highlights the inherent anxiety that writers face when publishing a book. Just as a comedian experiences a waiting period to gauge the audience's reaction to a joke, authors often have to wait a long time to understand how their work is received and whether it resonates with readers, creating a deep sense of vulnerability and anticipation.
Themes
WritingAnxietyBooksHumorFeedback
In practice
Example use cases
In a writing workshop, you could use this quote to discuss the emotional challenges of being an author.
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