Of the widow's countless death-duties there is really just one that matters: on the first anniversary of her husband's death the widow should think I kept myself alive.
Joyce Carol OatesRead
Keeing busy" is the remedy for all the ills in America. It's also the means by which the creative impulse is destroyed.
Interpretation
Staying busy can distract from deeper issues but can also stifle creativity.
In this quote, Joyce Carol Oates suggests that while being busy is often seen as a solution to various problems in society, it may simultaneously hinder our creative potential. The relentless pursuit of busyness can lead individuals to ignore important aspects of their lives, reducing the opportunity for reflection and innovative thought.
In practice
In a discussion on work-life balance, someone might say this quote to highlight the downside of chronic busyness.
Of the widow's countless death-duties there is really just one that matters: on the first anniversary of her husband's death the widow should think I kept myself alive.
I never really knew I wanted to 'be' a writer, but I was always writing from a very young age. It became more conscious as an ideal when I was in my twenties.
I'm drawn to write about upstate New York in the way in which a dreamer might have recurring dreams. My childhood and girlhood were spent in upstate New York, in the country north of Buffalo and West of Rochester. So this part of New York state is very familiar to me and, with its economic difficulties, has become emblematic of much of American life.
My writing is often a way of 'bearing witness' for others who lack the education and the opportunity to tell their own stories, so I hope that my writing won't be affected too much by my personal life.
The worst cynicism: a belief in luck.
. . . there is a wish in the heart of mankind to be distracted and confused. Truth is but one attraction, and not always the most powerful.
My prayer became 'May I find peace... May I love this life no matter what.' I was seeking an inner refuge, an experience of presence and wholeness that could carry me through whatever losses might come.
You'll never know everything about anything, especially something you love.
She says it has nothing to do with what you look like, or what you have. It has only to do with what you think of and what you do.
Acknowledging the good that you already have in your life is the foundation for all abundance.
He is a despicable sage whose wisdom does not profit himself.
I know that when I attached my sense of identity a little too closely to my work that I might be distracting myself from feelings of unworthiness. It wasn't the number of hours I worked or how bloodshot my eyes were that defined the difference. It was something internal.
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