Love is generally confused with dependence; but in point of fact, you can love only in proportion to your capacity for independence.
Rollo MayRead
Care is a state in which something does matter; it is the source of human tenderness.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Care signifies the significance of something in our lives and showcases our emotional connections to others.
This quote by Rollo May emphasizes that care is essential in human relationships, as it indicates that certain aspects of life hold meaning for us. It highlights that the ability to care is where our tenderness and compassion emerge, allowing us to connect with others on a deeper, more emotional level.
Themes
CareTendernessRelationshipsConnectionEmpathy
In practice
Example use cases
In a speech about nurturing relationships, one might say, 'As Rollo May said, care is the source of human tenderness.'
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