After all, damn it, what does being in love mean if you can't trust a person.
Evelyn WaughRead
Charm is the great English blight. It does not exist outside these damp islands. It spots and kills anything it touches. It kills love; it kills art; I greatly fear, my dear Charles, it has killed you.
Interpretation
This quote expresses the idea that charm can have a detrimental effect on authenticity and genuine feelings.
Evelyn Waugh’s quote suggests that while charm may seem appealing, it can have destructive consequences on love, art, and even personal relationships. It implies that charm is superficial, particularly among the English, and it points to a deeper worry that such superficiality may ultimately harm the essence of what makes us human and our connections to one another.
In practice
This quote can be used in a discussion about the impact of societal norms on genuine emotions.
After all, damn it, what does being in love mean if you can't trust a person.
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Evil is a violation of purpose, the purpose of your creator and mine.
Patriotism is best exemplified through auto-critique.
Our country is that spot to which our heart is bound.
How many times have you tried to solve “the problem”? you’ll be trying to solve it not just until you die but for many more lifetimes. Instead, understand that this world is just the play of the senses. It’s the five khandhas doing their thing; it has nothing to do with you. It’s just people being people, the world being the world.
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