In committed sex, in marriage, people don't feel the need to seduce or to build anticipation - - that's an effort they think they no longer need to do now that they have conquered their partner. If they're in the mood, their partner should be too.
People cheat on each other in a hundred different ways: indifference, emotional neglect, contempt, lack of respect, years of refusal of intimacy. Che… - Esther Perel
People cheat on each other in a hundred different ways: indifference, emotional neglect, contempt, lack of respect, years of refusal of intimacy. Che…
- Esther Perel
At this point, we are living one of the greatest experiments in humankind - to create something that has, throughout history, been considered a contr… - Esther Perel
At this point, we are living one of the greatest experiments in humankind - to create something that has, throughout history, been considered a contr…
Marriage isn't meant to make you happy - it's there because it gives you a life in which you can find happiness. - Esther Perel
Marriage isn't meant to make you happy - it's there because it gives you a life in which you can find happiness.
Very often we don’t go elsewhere because we are looking for another person. We go elsewhere because we are looking for another self. It isn’t so much… - Esther Perel
Very often we don’t go elsewhere because we are looking for another person. We go elsewhere because we are looking for another self. It isn’t so much…
Love rests on two pillars: surrender and autonomy. Our need for togetherness exists alongside our need for separateness. - Esther Perel
Love rests on two pillars: surrender and autonomy. Our need for togetherness exists alongside our need for separateness.
Love enjoys knowing everything about you; desire needs mystery. - Esther Perel
Love enjoys knowing everything about you; desire needs mystery.
Mystery is not always about travelling to new places, it is about looking with new eyes. - Esther Perel
Mystery is not always about travelling to new places, it is about looking with new eyes.
Women want to talk first, connect first, then have sex. For men, sex is the connection. Sex is man's language of intimacy - Esther Perel
Women want to talk first, connect first, then have sex. For men, sex is the connection. Sex is man's language of intimacy
Love is a vessel that contains both security and adventure, and commitment offers one of the great luxuries of life: time. Marriage is not the end of… - Esther Perel
Love is a vessel that contains both security and adventure, and commitment offers one of the great luxuries of life: time. Marriage is not the end of…
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