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Compassionate action starts with seeing yourself when you start to make yourself right and when you start to make yourself wrong. At that point you could just contemplate the fact that there is a larger alternative to either of those, a more tender, shaky kind of place where you could live.
Pema Chodron
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Compassion arises from self-awareness and understanding our dual nature of right and wrong.

In this quote, Pema Chodron emphasizes the importance of self-reflection and compassion. She suggests that true compassionate action begins when we recognize our own tendencies to judge ourselves as either right or wrong. By acknowledging this internal conflict, we can open ourselves to a different, more gentle perspective that allows for greater understanding and empathy towards ourselves and others. This viewpoint encourages us to embrace vulnerability and seek a more compassionate approach to living.

Themes

CompassionSelf-AwarenessTendernessAcceptanceVulnerability

In practice

Example use cases

This quote can be used in a speech about personal growth and mental health.

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