Married couples who quarrel bitterly every day may really need each other as deeply as those who appear to be desperately in love.
Edward AbbeyRead
The consolation of reading biography: Most great men have led lives even more miserable than our own.
Interpretation
Reading biographies can provide comfort by revealing that even great individuals faced severe hardships.
Edward Abbey's quote highlights the value of biographies in understanding that many celebrated figures in history have endured significant struggles, often more severe than those we experience in our own lives. This perspective can serve as both a comfort and a reminder that greatness does not exempt one from adversity; in fact, it often comes from overcoming it.
In practice
In a speech about resilience, one might quote Abbey to illustrate that personal struggles are universally shared.
Married couples who quarrel bitterly every day may really need each other as deeply as those who appear to be desperately in love.
I love America because it is a confused, chaotic mess - and I hope we can keep it this way for at least another thousand years. The permissive society is the free society.
If it's knowledge and wisdom you want, then seek out the company of those who do real work for an honest purpose.
The earth is real. Only a fool, milking his cow, denies the cow's reality.
I believe in nothing that I cannot touch, kiss, embrace.... The rest is only hearsay.
Why can't we simply borrow what is useful to us from Buddhism, Hinduism, Taoism, especially Zen, as we borrow from Christianity, science, American Indian traditions and world literature in general, including philosophy, and let the rest go hang? Borrow what we need but rely principally upon our own senses, common sense and daily living experience.
The Buddha taught that we're not actually in control, which is a pretty scary idea. But when you let things be as they are, you will be a much happier, more balanced, compassionate person.
So long as there is any subject which men may not freely discuss, they are timid upon all subjects.
Bear in mind, my children, that only cowards and those who are weak commit sin and tell lies. The brave are always moral. Try to be moral, try to be brave, try to be sympathising.
Instead of asking "whatβs the problem?" ask "what's the creative opportunity?
She hoped to be wise and reasonable in time; but alas! Alas! She must confess to herself that she was not wise yet.
It is only one who is thoroughly acquainted with the evils of war that can thoroughly understand the profitable way of carrying it on.
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