Falling in love is not an extension of one's limits or boundaries; it is a partial and temporary collapse of them.
M. Scott PeckRead
Courage is not the absence of fear; it is the making of action in spite of fear.
Interpretation
Courage involves taking action despite feeling afraid.
This quote emphasizes that true courage is not the lack of fear, but rather the ability to act and make decisions even when fear is present. It highlights the importance of overcoming obstacles and not letting fear paralyze us from pursuing our goals or standing up for what we believe in.
In practice
During a motivational speech to inspire students to face their anxieties about their futures.
Falling in love is not an extension of one's limits or boundaries; it is a partial and temporary collapse of them.
Listening well is an exercise of attention and by necessity hard work. It is because they do not realize this or because they are not willing to do the work that most people do not listen well.
If your goal is to avoid pain and escape suffering, I would not advise you to seek higher levels of consciousness or spiritual evolution.
All my life I used to wonder what I would become when I grew up. Then, about seven years ago, I realized that I was never going to grow up--that growing is an ever ongoing process.
When we love someone our love becomes demonstrable or real only through our exertion - through the fact that for that someone (or for ourself) we take an extra step or walk an extra mile. Love is not effortless. To the contrary, love is effortful.
An unconscious, gentle process whereby people who want to be loving attempt to be so by telling little white lies, by withholding some of the truth about themselves and their feelings in order to avoid conflict. Pseudocommunity is conflict-avoiding; true community is conflict-resolving.
First it was the whites, and then their Negro message bearers. And the word was always the same: 'Tell your sons to take their names off the books. Don't show up at the courthouse voting day.'
I can only say that there is not a man living who wishes more sincerely than I do to see a plan adopted for the abolition of slavery.
Timidity is a fault for which it is dangerous to reprove persons whom we wish to correct of it.
... resistance to tyranny is man's highest ideal.
There was one man in the Labour government, Robin Cook, whom I had a very high regard for. He had the courage to speak out and to resign over Iraq. He was an admirable man. But resignation over a matter of principle is not a very fashionable thing in our society.
It doesn't take a hero to order men into battle. It takes a hero to be one of those men who goes into battle.
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