In this culture the soul and the heart too often go homeless. Listening creates a holy silence. When you listen generously to people, they can hear the truth in themselves, often for the first time. And in the silence of listening, you can know yourself in everyone. Eventually you may be able to hear, in everyone and beyond everyone, the unseen singing softly to itself and to you.
Interpretation
Listening deeply to others can help them discover their own truths and connect us all.
This quote emphasizes the profound impact of listening on both the speaker and the listener. It suggests that in a world where individuals often feel disconnected, the act of listening creates a sacred space for reflection and self-awareness, allowing one to tap into deeper truths within themselves and recognizing that these truths are universal. This shared experience fosters connection and understanding among people, enabling a greater sense of unity and empathy.
In practice
In a workshop on active listening, you might quote this to emphasize the importance of being present.
Helping, fixing, and serving represent three different ways of seeing life. When you help, you see life as weak. when you fix, you see life as broken. When you serve, you see life as whole. Fixing and helping may be the work of the ego, and service the work of the soul.
At the deepest level, the creative process and the healing process arise from a single source. When you are an artist, you are a healer; a wordless trust of the same mystery is the foundation of your work and its integrity.
The most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our attention…. A loving silence often has far more power to heal and to connect than the most well-intentioned words.
Grieving allows us to heal, to remember with love rather than pain. It is a sorting process. One by one you let go of the things that are gone and you mourn for them. One by one you take hold of the things that have become a part of who you are and build again.
Life is known only by those who have found a way to be comfortable with change and the unknown. Given the nature of life, there may be no security, but only adventure.
How strange to think that great pain may be impermanent. Something in us all seems to want to carve it in granite, as if only this would do full honor to its terrible significance. But even pain is blessed with impermanence... p 259
They change their skies, _x000D_ but not their souls _x000D_ who run across the sea.
For where is the man that has incontestable evidence of the truth of all that he holds, or of the falsehood of all he condemns; or can say that he has examined to the bottom all his own, or other men's opinions? The necessity of believing without knowledge, nay often upon very slight grounds, in this fleeting state of action and blindness we are in, should make us more busy and careful to inform ourselves than constrain others.
Skepticism . . . is not intellectual only it is moral also, a chronic atrophy and disease of the whole soul.
I never regretted turning down anything, I never regretted losing a job because I always felt something else was out there.
White people in North America live in a social environment that protects and insulates them from race-based stress. This insulated environment of racial protection builds white expectations for racial comfort while at the same time lowering the ability to tolerate racial stress.
Accuracy of signal and free flow of information define sanity in my epistemology.
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