As honour, love, obedience, troops of friends, / I must not look to have; but, in their stead, / Curses, not loud but deep, mouth-honour, breath, / Which the poor heart would fain deny, and dare not" (5.3.25-28).
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The curse of marriage_x000D_ _x000D_ That we can call these delicate creatures ours_x000D_ _x000D_ And not their appetites!
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote highlights the objectification of spouses in marriage, suggesting ownership over a partner rather than recognizing their individuality.
William Shakespeare's quote critiques the traditional view of marriage where individuals often see their spouses as possessions rather than as individuals with their own desires and needs. It calls attention to the problematic nature of treating partners as 'ours' while disregarding their personal appetites and aspirations, emphasizing the importance of mutual respect and understanding in relationships.
Themes
MarriageOwnershipRelationshipsDesiresRespect
In practice
Example use cases
In a speech about the importance of mutual respect in relationships.
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