Married couples who quarrel bitterly every day may really need each other as deeply as those who appear to be desperately in love.
Edward AbbeyRead
You can't study the darkness by flooding it with light.
Interpretation
Understanding complex issues requires more than just obvious solutions.
Edward Abbey's quote suggests that in order to truly comprehend difficult situations, one must delve into the nuances and complexities rather than simply overwhelming them with simplistic or overtly positive approaches. Light symbolizes clarity and obviousness, while darkness represents confusion and depth; thus, true understanding comes from exploring the darkness rather than trying to illuminate it without depth.
In practice
This quote can be used in a discussion about the importance of addressing mental health issues in a holistic manner.
Married couples who quarrel bitterly every day may really need each other as deeply as those who appear to be desperately in love.
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What people in the world think of you is really none of your business.
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Forgive but do not forget, or you will be hurt again. Forgiving changes the perspectives. Forgetting loses the lesson.
When you're being asked to think about the meaning of your intuitions before you act on them, maybe along the way you decide your intuitions are destructive or make no sense at all. And then you don't act on them.
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