A writer's job is to imagine everything so personally that the fiction is as vivid as memories.
John IrvingRead
Death, it seems," Garp wrote, "does not like to wait until we are prepared for it. Death is indulgent and enjoys, when it can, a flair for the dramatic.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Death often arrives unexpectedly and can be dramatic in nature.
In this quote, John Irving reflects on the unpredictable nature of death, suggesting that it often comes at inopportune times, catching us off guard. He personifies death as indulgent and theatrical, indicating that it tends to intrude into our lives with little regard for our readiness, which emphasizes the importance of cherishing life and the moments we have.
Themes
DeathPreparednessLifeUnpredictabilityDrama
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used in a eulogy to highlight the unexpected nature of death.
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