A person is either himself or not himself; is either rooted in his existence or is a fabrication; has either found his humanhood or is still playing with masks and roles and status symbols. And nobody is more aware of this difference (although unconsciously) than a child. Only an authentic person can evoke a good response in the core of the other person; only person is resonant to person.
The difference between patriotism and nationalism is that the patriot is proud of his country for what it does, and the nationalist is proud of his country no matter what it does; the first attitude creates a feeling of responsibility, but the second a feeling of blind arrogance that leads to war.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Patriotism is pride based on actions, while nationalism is pride regardless of actions, leading to responsibility versus arrogance.
This quote by Sydney J. Harris distinguishes between patriotism and nationalism, suggesting that a true patriot takes pride in their country based on its positive actions and values, fostering a sense of responsibility towards its citizens and the world. In contrast, nationalism, characterized by an unquestioning pride in one's country regardless of its actions, can lead to a dangerous and blind arrogance that contributes to conflict and war.
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In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about global conflicts, this quote can be used to highlight the dangers of blind nationalism.
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