We cannot control the evil tongues of others; but a good life enables us to disregard them.
It is a difficult matter to argue with the belly since it has no ears.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Arguing with someone who is only focused on their basic needs is futile.
This quote by Cato the Elder suggests that engaging in a debate or argument with someone who is driven purely by their basic instincts, such as hunger or other primal needs, is a waste of time. It highlights the idea that when someone's priorities are fixed on satisfying their immediate physical desires, they are unlikely to listen to reason or forego their cravings for more abstract arguments or discussions. Therefore, it's a reminder of the challenges of communication and persuasion when basic needs are in play.
Themes
In practice
Example use cases
During a discussion about nutrition, one might refer to this quote to illustrate the importance of addressing hunger before discussing dietary choices.
More from Cato The Elder
All quotes βAn angry man opens his mouth and shuts his eyes.
I think the first virtue is to restrain the tongue; he approaches nearest to gods who knows how to be silent, even though he is in the right.
Tis sometimes the height of wisdom to feign stupidity.
Lighter is the wound foreseen.
Patience is the greatest of all virtues.
Similar quotes
I have learned silence from the talkative, toleration from the intolerant, and kindness from the unkind; yet, strange, I am ungrateful to those teachers.
Sometimes the heart is so heavy that we turn away from it and forget that its throbbing is the wisest message of life, a wordless message that says, "Live, be, move, rejoice -- you are alive!" Without the heart's wise rhythm, we could not exist.
The control of the palate is a valuable aid for the control of the mind.
I don't believe in yesterday, by the way.
You see things less clearly when you open your eyes too wide.
Do not worry about not holding high position; worry rather about playing your proper role. Worry not that no one knows of you; seek to be worth knowing.