It is in books, poems, paintings which often give us the confidence to take seriously feelings in ourselves that we might otherwise never have thought to acknowledge.
Alain De BottonRead
A dominant impulse on encountering beauty is to wish to hold on to it, to possess it and give it weight in one’s life. There is an urge to say, ‘I was here, I saw this and it mattered to me.
Interpretation
The quote reflects our desire to capture and acknowledge beauty's impact on our lives.
Alain De Botton expresses a fundamental human desire to connect with beauty and to document our experiences of it. This instinct stems from a need for validation and significance, where encountering beauty compels us to mark our existence and affirm that we have truly lived and felt something meaningful.
In practice
In a speech about art appreciation, one might use this quote to illustrate how beauty influences our lives.
It is in books, poems, paintings which often give us the confidence to take seriously feelings in ourselves that we might otherwise never have thought to acknowledge.
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Life is infinitely stranger than anything which the mind of man could invent.
There are thoughts which are prayers. There are moments when, whatever the posture of the body, the soul is on its knees.
The necessity for external government to man is in an inverse ratio to the vigor of his self-government. Where the last is most complete, the first is least wanted. Hence, the more virtue the more liberty.
Accordingly, France Had Voltaire, and his school of negative thinkers, and England (or rather Scotland) had the profoundest negative thinker on record, David Hume: a man, the peculiarities of whose mind qualified him to detect failure of proof, and want of logical consistency, at a depth which French skeptics, with their comparatively feeble powers of analysis and abstractions stop far short of, and which German subtlety alone could thoroughly appreciate, or hope to rival.
Some dreams we have are nothing else but dreams, Unnatural and full of contradictions; Yet others of our most romantic schemes, Are something more than fictions.
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