I've been told that people in the army do more by 7:00 am than I do in an entire day But if I wake at 6:59 am and turn to you to trace the outline of your lips with mine I will have done enough and killed no one in the process.
Shane KoyczanRead
Don't tell me that [broken heartstrings] hurt less than a broken bone, that an ingrown life is something surgeons can cut away, that there's no way for it to metastasize - it does.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The pain of emotional wounds can be more profound than physical injuries, and they often linger and spread in ways we cannot ignore.
In this quote, Shane Koyczan emphasizes the deep and often invisible pain that can accompany emotional trauma, comparing it to physical injuries. He highlights that emotional suffering, such as heartache, is profound and impactful, often dismissed by those who do not understand that these wounds can be long-lasting and far-reaching, similar to how a broken bone can affect overall health.
Themes
Emotional PainBroken HeartHeartstringsLoveTrauma
In practice
Example use cases
During a therapy session discussing coping mechanisms for heartbreak.
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