He had learned long ago that, in general, the easier it was for anxious patients to reach him, the less likely they were to call. (107)
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I dream of a love that is more than two people craving to possess one another.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote expresses a desire for a deeper, more meaningful connection in love, beyond mere possession.
Irvin D. Yalom emphasizes that true love transcends the desire for ownership and possession between two individuals. Instead, it should involve a profound, mutual connection that nurtures each person's growth and identity, allowing both partners to thrive while being together.
Themes
LoveConnectionMutualGrowthDepth
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be shared during a wedding speech to highlight the essence of lasting love.
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