You know the old adage: Plant an expectation, reap a disappointment.
Elizabeth GilbertRead
There is hardly a more gracious gift that we can offer somebody than to accept them fully, to love them almost despite themselves.
Interpretation
Accepting and loving someone for who they are is a significant act of kindness.
This quote emphasizes the profound power of acceptance and unconditional love. It suggests that when we truly embrace someone for their authentic self, even with their flaws and imperfections, we give them a rare and generous gift. This type of love helps foster deeper connections and showcases the beauty of human relationships.
In practice
This quote could be used in a wedding speech to highlight the importance of unconditional love in marriage.
You know the old adage: Plant an expectation, reap a disappointment.
Do not apologize for crying. Without this emotion, we are only robots.
I had always been taught that the pursuit of happiness was my natural (even national) birthright. It is the emotional trademark of my culture to seek happiness. Not just any kind of happiness, either, but profound happiness, even soaring happiness. And what could possibly bring a person more soaring happiness than romantic love.
When I tried this morning, after an hour or so of unhappy thinking, to dip back into my meditation, I took a new idea with me: compassion. I asked my heart if it could please infuse my soul with a more generous perspective on my mind's workings. Instead of thinking that I was a failure, could I perhaps accept that I am only a human being--and a normal one, at that?
And when you sense a faint potentiality for happiness after such dark times you must grab onto the ankles of that happiness and not let go until it drags you face-first out of the dirt - this is not selfishness, but obligation. You were given life; it is your duty to find something beautiful within life no matter how slight.
But never again use another person's body or emotions as a scratching post for your own unfulfilling yearnings.
We fall in love because we long to escape from ourselves with someone as beautiful, intelligent, and witty as we are ugly, stupid, and dull. But what if such a perfect being should one day turn around and decide they will love us back? We can only be somewhat shocked-how can they be as wonderful as we had hoped when they have the bad taste to approve of someone like us?
Give love and unconditional acceptance to those you encounter, and notice what happens.
Who love too much, hate in the like extreme.
If you will thank me '' he replied let it be for yourself alone. That the wish of giving happiness to you might add force to the other inducements which led me on I shall not attempt to deny. But your family owe me nothing. Much as I respect them I believe I thought only of you.
Explain! Tell a man to explain how he dropped into hell! Explain my preference! I never had a PREFERENCE for her, any more than I have a preference for breathing. No other woman exists by the side of her. I would rather touch her hand if it were dead, than I would touch any other woman's living.
A woman of seven and twenty, said Marianne, after pausing a moment, can never hope to feel or inspire affection again.
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