You know the old adage: Plant an expectation, reap a disappointment.
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And when you sense a faint potentiality for happiness after such dark times you must grab onto the ankles of that happiness and not let go until it drags you face-first out of the dirt - this is not selfishness, but obligation. You were given life; it is your duty to find something beautiful within life no matter how slight.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Pursuing happiness is a responsibility, especially after difficult times.
In this quote, Elizabeth Gilbert emphasizes the importance of holding onto any chance of happiness that arises after experiencing challenging moments. She asserts that seeking and nurturing moments of beauty and joy in life is not a selfish act; it is a moral obligation for individuals to recognize and embrace the positive aspects of life, regardless of how small they may seem.
Themes
HappinessObligationLifeBeautyDuty
In practice
Example use cases
During a motivational speech about resilience and the importance of finding joy in adversity.
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